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A Heartfelt Letter To A Woman Who Wants to Feel Sexy Again And Receive Her Man's Ravishing Love...
Dear Sister, Now even though by now you can tell I'm a positive and passionate lady... I want you to know it hasn't always been like that... and I wonder how many of you have been divorced like me? Watched their parent die like me? Moved out of their nice big house once single because you couldn't afford it anymore like me? Been in debt like me? Gathered the courage to call a guy and he doesn't call back, like I have? Been madly in love with someone only to have them dump you like me? Have an ex husband that keeps you "challenged" like me? The point is so many of us have had really tough times on the journey. And personally, I didn't know if I could go on sometimes... not suicidal, but deeply depressed and hopeless feeling like a salmon swimming up river towing a friggen' building behind me while gasping for breath while all these other sultry successful sappy fish swam by. Bitch. Jerk. Ahhh. So what a GIFT from above when I discovered...
Tell me if this ever happened to you? You are dating a man who's totally into you, adores you, wants you, the chemistry is incredible... yet he begins to lose interest in you, withdraws his affection, begins to check out other women then stops calling, leaving you alone, crushed and bewildered. Or how about this... Have you ever gotten all dressed up, feeling pretty good about yourself and then you walk into the party and there's a woman more sexy than you... getting more attention, getting more MEN'S attention, and no one notices you, you feel deflated so you hide behind the chips and dip? Or how about when... You're in a new relationship and you just don't feel confident sexually, you are in your head all the time about what he thinks of your thighs, you wonder if he finds you sexy enough and you just wish you could relax and really let loose. When any of these things happened, you blamed yourself... what did I do wrong? Why am I so insecure? Why can't I feel sexy enough? Why can't I find a good man, a hot man, a sexy man, a man who adores me, thinks I'm great in bed, wants to spend his life with me... Then you felt more scared that you'd never find a man, and be alone for the rest of your life. You pretended it didn't matter and focused on more work or the kids or maybe it made you try even harder to be sexier which somehow pushed men away even faster, making you even more frustrated and hopeless. You hated being invited to friends weddings and envied women who were happily draped on men's arms, always wondering deep down why men wanted other sexier women and not you. The Secret to Being and Staying Sexy
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So ladies, this is why I've written my Book and recorded my 10 part audio series How To Be And Stay Sexy, Attracting the Love and Attention You Deserve Being Exactly Who You Are where I inspire women to unleash their sensuality! We're in this together, shifting our old sabotaging behaviors and celebrating that we've learned how to be and stay sexy and attract the love and attention we deserve being exactly who we are.
I wish a simple pill could make me be sexy and stay sexy forever! Yet you know as well as I do that if you want the garden to grow, you need to tend to it regularly. My Book & Audio provide regular luscious injections of juiciness into your life so you can attract affection and devotion easily, quickly, joyfully and naturally and have the answers to questions such as,
What is the truth about why men stop looking at us, why they cheat, why it's the most debilitating, painful and destructive experience for our self confidence, AND how can we change this?
Honestly it comes down to this (which you'll learn from page 22-25 of the book). We become predictable. We figure out what gets them to respond and then we're an open book, they assume they've "been there done that." Men cheat because they want someone who thinks they're amazing, someone who looks upon them fresh, someone who is enthralled with what they do, is a different flavor of energy, a different way of responding, a mystery...
Well my sisters, the Feminine IS the Mystery ... we've just become scared that we won't get his attention again if we don't do it the one way that worked last time and we shoot ourselves in the foot and before you know it, he looks elsewhere. I will teach you how to expand every flavor of YOU, so that you are the answer to his desire for variety, and so that YOU enjoy this expression of you! Don't worry, I'm not going to ask you to put on a blond wig just to keep him from cheating... no, no, none of that... I'm simply going to teach you how to keep him guessing and keep him wanting YOU.
I am no longer ashamed to admit that there have been many a lonely night when I've felt love starved, touch starved and attention starved. And what's even worse is that sometimes I was alone, yet sometimes I was lying right next to someone feeling this way!
Here was the mistake I was making: I thought I'd feel better if I got attention from HIM vs. from myself first. I'm not saying that we should marry our vibrators or that we can't enjoy the fulfillment a relationship brings... not at all!! But I can teach you how to truly fall in love with yourself... because listen up... "When you value yourself, you attract a man that values you..." Another way of saying this is that,
In CD 1 of the Audio Series you will learn that when you're in love with your body, your expression, your whole Self... not with arrogance, but luscious radiant and overflowing self love... men flock to you and STAY. It's as if you're already full, not needing them to fill you. You're like food to the hungry, cool rain to a parched soul, I will teach you how to come home to YOU and then voila... he'll arrive. Promise.
Ready for me to get more honest? In the past I had no idea what to do when a man I was dating (or married to!) was in his head pissed off about the day. I hated this because when he was in a "mood" he didn't even notice I exist!! I'd try all sorts of manipulations or little white lies just to get him to want me again and wake up from his grumpy mood!
Now I know how to win his attention and lift him from his dark mood where he can't even see me. I will tell you what I told one of my clients to do... and she told me the result was they made love all night until morning and she had the most heart opening experience of her life... crying, being beyond her body... seeing us all connected... having an orgasm with the cosmos... and walking around with her eye lashes all heavy, droopy and sexy the whole next week... and he apparently just took her again and again that week and she just opened and waited, the alluring temptress ready to serve her noble stud... makes me hot just telling you about it.
So here's what I told her... when he's in a "mood" you have to get him out of his head and into his body. I gave her very explicit instructions... (all explained in juicy detail on pages 49-51 of my Book) I told her to do this as a gift, to think of it like mouth-to-mouth resuscitation, he's dying, almost dead, completely cut off from the world of pleasure, desire and love... and that she couldn't reach his heart through his mind, she'd just get more grumpiness, she had to reach him through his body.
I told her she had to do this with no strings attached, no acknowledgment required, just total loving service, and to hold herself as supremely respected, valuable and honored like the Queen of Healing Men's Pain.
Something very powerful shifted in their relationship - she was unwilling to take his behavior personally anymore and knew how to bring them closer. She was willing to give first and then be open to receiving more than she's ever allowed in before. She became the ONLY woman he has ever adored.
I've always wanted to be the only woman my man adored, yet in all honesty, I need to admit that there were times when I was becoming really sexy and I didn't want share my secrets with other women... I was still terrified that she would get to him first, still afraid that there weren't enough good men to go around.
This may sound weird yet I felt "safe" helping my coaching clients be sexy because they lived around the world, yet I still felt competitive telling the girl next door. I don't know about you, but I had never gotten over that girl in high school who stole my boyfriend behind my back. I was "saving" my virginity for him and he for me and they went off and did it at some party and I was crushed and humiliated. I wanted somehow to be healed FIRST and THEN share what I'd learned. Yet I remembered, "give and you shall receive" so I jumped off the cliff and began sharing my secrets on how to be and stay sexy.
So many women had amazing results and began being radiant sexy creatures... attracting GREAT men... having mind blowing sex... getting proposed to... having their dreams come true... all this happiness and all these miracles somehow healed my wounded heart. Literally after coaching sessions with clients I put down the phone and jump up and down crying happy tears. Literally at the end of speeches I was surrounded by the whole group doing these huge group hugs and we'd all cry happy tears.
I'm such a mushy mess now and I LOVE to share my secrets and I not only have the fullest heart around, I also have all the masculine attention and affection I can handle! It's true what you give is what you receive.
My clients, listeners and viewers are my sisters and they are proving that there are plenty of great men for us all! Sexy Women Rock!
So the only problem I began having was that I didn't have time to work one-on-one with every woman and not every woman could afford my coaching or workshops, so I needed a way to share this knowledge with as many women as possible affordably so I wrote How To Be And Stay Sexy~ Attracting The Love And Attention You Deserve Being Exactly Who You Are AND included my Membership Community called Redefining Sexuality, filled with interviews, videos and articles, for FREE!
I tell you everything I've learned, everything men have disclosed to me, everything I wish someone had told me. This Book is one of a kind in that it's not like the self help remedies out there that get you to try harder and do more work.
No, it's about coming home to who you already are. It's like removing the veil between you and your most juicy sultry luscious sexy self. Men want us to know this information! We need to have this information to be and stay sexy and to get the love and devotion we deserve.
The horrifying truth that once a man has "claimed" you, he actually subconsciously tries to sabotage your sexiness AND how to turn the tables, keep your sexiness AND keep him always wanting YOU. (page 33-35 of the Book)
How to transform feelings of insecurity and unworthiness into feelings of unshakeable confidence and radiant lusciousness- in 3 seconds. Yup. Promise. (page 35-36 of the Book)
(There's a little set of pills you need to take tucked inside chapter one... no - I wish it was that easy. Seriously though, look, we all search for unconditional love on some level. We all have a little girl inside who wish he'd swoop in and save us and make it all better. This is one of my exclusive secrets as a coach where I take you through a transformative practice that sets you free from insecurity at the core, not "kumbaya" affirmations, not "pump you up" egocentric exercises, no, the real thing so that you don't have to TRY to be confident and luscious... you ARE confident and luscious. And by the way, that's hands down the sexiest thing about a woman according to men...true confidence.)
I'm going to tell you how to spot a less than noble man and say good riddens before he breaks your heart. (CD 2 of the Audio Series)
(This secret is going to blow your mind... I know we all know that the ones who don't call back, or arrive on time, or look at other women, or forget your name or make you go dutch... these are obvious losers, but the biggest reason is going to make you soooo pissed off and then set you free... I've never in any course heard this information revealed before and I heard it from working with the best of the best to handle my OWN issues over the years and now I'm passing this priceless information onto you.
This information alone will save you years of heartbreak and loneliness. Had I only known this, I probably wouldn't have been divorced twice.)*I hope you're ready to laugh and let go when you read my book because when we can laugh at ourselves for our mistakes, it's way more fun than pummeling ourselves with judgment and "wish I would've, should've, could've." And with that I will tell you...
The three biggest mistakes women make trying to be sexy actually turn men off! (page 41-42 of the Book)
(These are great and might make you want to smash plates in the fireplace because they're the OPPOSITE to what the media and countless self help books and seminars have told us... they're even opposite to what most MEN tell us (because THOSE are the men who just want to f%&# us – which is great - but not the ones who want to be devoted to us FOREVER) ding ding ding... get it? Well, now I know these mistakes and I STILL catch myself falling into the old patterns yet now I find it humorous to notice I'm doing it again and attracting losers who won't adore and cherish me... hello Allana... take your own advice and reread your book!
It's funny, sometimes I actually listen to my own Interviews and I'm amazed at the magical information that comes through me. I have such a deep profound sisterly fierce love for my female friends, and I just KNOW that when we are at peace with who we are sexually and sensually, that we attract GREAT MEN!)
The three sultry secrets to having his lasting attention, touch and affection for you for the rest of your life. (page 42-46 of the Book and CD 2 of the Audio Series)
(I truly stumbled upon this after hitting rock bottom when my mom died... I had this powerful meditation and was told to do these three specific practices that brought back my sexiness and then blossomed it WAY past where I'd ever been... kind of like an arrow in the bow... I had to be pulled way down to my knees to then soar into the hills...so don't worry if you're in a low place reading this... you're about to spring board into the most juicy freedom of your life once you start reading the book, applying the insights, hearing my encouragement and inspiration...
I get so passionate writing to you about the amazing life that's possible when you start living the practices I'm living, start receiving the attention I'm receiving, start feeling the confidence, peace and joy I'm feeling... I absolutely love being a woman. And men love a woman who's in love with being a woman... careful, I didn't say in love with her SELF (ego), but in love with LIFE Itself... this is a very important and crucial distinction that I teach in my book. It will resonate with your soul. You will know you've come home.)
Now it's essential to me that you know I'm tell you the truth, not selling you on the illusion that I'm perfect. I'm an everyday woman like you who gets insecure, gets bloated, gets nervous etc., it's simply that I've mastered sexiness and I'm experiencing power, pleasure and peace beyond my imagination and I want you to experience it too. And yet I'm not a married woman teaching you how to be married. I'm a successfully divorced woman! - ha - SOOOO...
I provide inside strategies from successfully married women on how to build sexual chemistry year after year. (On page 46-49 of the Book)
(So whether your marriage needs some spicing up, the kids are out of the house or baby has just arrived, or if you're dating or if you're single... we ALL need to know how to build sexual chemistry day after day, month after month, year after year... the answers will surprise you and it's not as hard as you think. Yet, it will require you to take responsibility for your own happiness by reading my book and taking on an expanded opinion of yourself, my opinion of you, that you are already a Goddess, you are already a Luscious Radiant Juicy Wild Woman who deserves to be ravished lovingly, tenderly held, ravished deeply, touched often, acknowledged always, cherished forever. Sound good?)
Honestly this was my concern too as I'd always worked with women one-on-one or in workshops and knowing that many women have transformations just listening to my interviews. I knew the information worked from all my past clients, but how could I GUARANTEE women could unleash their sensuality and become radiant sexual creatures to get the love and adoration they deserved?
That's why I created a 4 Part Guarantee to ensure the information would change your life:
First the Book- it's delicious. (you will love the Message from Author section where I share photos of me BEFORE sexy and AFTER. Be kind!)and yet it's just a Book so....
Add the riveting Audio Series (Value $47 yours FREE) so you can hear my voice, feel my passion and have the convenience of listening in the car or at the gym and yet those are just products so...
Because I've been so successful as a Coach, I recorded a Bonus How To Be And Stay Sexy Teleclass (Value $97 yours Free) and yet those are quality valuable transformational products... yet what could give regular empowerment to ensure lasting change?
So finally, I created the luscious membership community called Redefining Sexuality(Value $29/month, yours FREE)which makes this whole equation absolutely guaranteed, because while I wish doing sit-ups once would give me a flat stomach, I know doing sit-ups regularly is the key!
The Membership is the only way to create lasting change in your life because you'll stay connected to ME... my TV appearances & Radio interviews, my online TV show Permission for Pleasure, my interviews with experts, celebrities and spiritual leaders, my video tips, my articles such as the ones I contribute as an Expert
And so, what are the readers of the Book, listeners of the Audio Series and valued yummy Members of the Free Redefining Sexuality community saying? These letters have made me cry and smile and cheer. Yes, this secret information I'm revealing works in the way I'm presenting it:
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"I am a single woman who felt pretty sexy, yet I wasn't able to find a GOOD MAN... just a Bad Boy who would use me. Being a part of Allana's Membership community taught me how to be a sexy woman who is honored and cherished, too. You see, it was never safe to talk in my house growing up... I might be ignored, ridiculed, yelled at, so let's just say that I was a very good people pleaser. I would kiss a guy when I didn't want to, sleep with him when I didn't want to, even accept a date with someone I didn't care for just for the attention... my sexiness was needy... I loved listening to the Audio each day to and from work as Allana showed me that my old sexiness was really my heart being starved for attention. She showed me that there was a new kind of sexiness inside me that was classy, a kind that invited a noble man to honor me... and I've begun to attract a whole new league of quality guys! I'm somehow full from the inside out. I'm freer than ever, my friends say I've become classy and sultry, I feel more confident and at peace than ever, and the men certainly think I'm luscious and sensual! Thank you so much Allana, I really thought something was wrong with me and all I needed was your amazing interviews, empowering calls and your Book that taught me a few more ingredients to put into my recipe! I'm so grateful. I've told all my friends they need to join your membership as soon as possible!" M.H. Austin, TX |
"This may sound silly but my 3 girlfriends and I have started a Sexy Gals Night with your monthly Interviews! We meet on Friday nights, pour some wine, listen to interview and discuss it. You really make people tell you everything! Then we do one of your practices from the Book and giggle because we've never felt so outrageously sexy in all our lives! You really hit the nail on the head when you say that time with your "sisters" makes you off the charts sexy when do the RIGHT things with your girlfriends. Then we go out and are happily shocked and amazed at the droves of men that flock to our side. I personally have never felt more at peace in my body and between you and me, my sex life is off the charts. Truly the consistency of the monthly interviews have changed my thinking forever. I had no idea some simple ideas in your Book could shift my life so radically. We love you Allana!" A.S, S. K., A. B & J. K, San Luis Obispo, CA |
"After the last guy who broke up with me, I was REALLY upset. I mean WAY more upset than the situation warranted. I was looking for help and found Allana's membership. I cried the first time I listened to her Audio Series. She was speaking right to me. Then the interviews really helped me to release the tremendous pressure I had put on myself to have a husband so I could be a good enough mom for my son and look good to everyone around me. Being in Allana's world is great. She is so loving and also bold. Answering my questions in her teleclasses helped me do two things: 1. intend that a great man come into my life, yet 2: let that intention go and focus on me, being sexy, enjoying me, "treasuring" me as Allana says with all these easy and fun new ways to look at life. I was pleasantly surprised when this really great guy took interest in me, and then another, and then another... it was like I'd stopped TRYING to be sexy and I became totally magnetic to men! I felt so shocked and yet now I feel so sexy and even sassy! I feel like I've come out of my shell. I love you Allana for helping me finally love my body! Considering how devastated I was when I joined your membership. You are a miracle worker. You are my life line and I'm not going anywhere! Truly thank you from the bottom of my heart." S. H., Kalispell, Montana |
"When I found you I was very shy and felt it was bad manners to be sexy yet I was only attracting nice guys and wanted someone who would really take me as well as be sweet with me. I actually found your website first and then found your Membership offer (and bought it immediately- thank you for all the extra stuff). You had me sold with your incredible definition of what you think a sexy woman is... you are the real thing. I've read your Book and I listen to the Interviews in the car every day and it's really sinking in. There's something about listening to your voice that makes me feel like you really care. You've really shown me that being sexy is my birthright, it's not bad or dirty, it's powerful and incredible. I feel so expansive, you book has taught me how to tap into so much power with men to have them absolutely cherish me like I've always wanted and I feel totally deserving of it, all insecurity and shame is gone, I'm free! I can't thank you enough. It's like you've given me the gift of ME! P.s. I wasn't going to tell you but I just can't end this letter without telling you that I had also never had an orgasm before joining your Membership. It's happened. Being a woman is so amazing. Thank you!" M. W., Toronto, Canada |
And so my sisters, I humbly stand before you, heart open, offering my experience and wisdom to you in full celebration of your sexual freedom and sensual fulfillment.
It's my intention that YOU be the most happy, fulfilled, sexy, sassy, sultry, succulent, sensual and powerful, passionate and peaceful woman possible by reading my Book and learning about the Art of Sexual Invitation (page 36), about Dissolving the ‘Perma Kegal'! (Audio CD 3), about Succulent Solutions To Be Ravishing with Your Man (page 78-82), about Sexy Ways to Maneuver Through Mayhem (Audio CD 4), about Unleashing Your Inner Diva (page 97-106) and even about being a Sexy Seductress on a Budget (page 117-121).
From my heart to yours, here's what I want you to do.
Say "Yes, Allana!"
Yes, Allana! Give it to me NOW!
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